It often seems that we live our life as if we are just going through the motions but not getting anywhere. No matter how much we try nothing ever seems to change or get any better and we get to a point where we start asking “is there more to life than this?”
When we hit this point it can feel like you are in a whirlwind of despair and no amount of positive thinking can get you out of it. Like a hamster on a wheel you just keep moving your feet but you never get off the track.
Here are 5 signs that show you are not being true to who you really are:
① You have a feeling in the pit of your stomach that you know you are here for a reason but you have no idea what it is. It keeps you awake at night and thoughts about living a more fulfilled life keep whirring around in your head.
② When you agree to something or someone and when you think about doing it, it makes you feel slightly sick because you know that it isn’t you or it’s not what you want to do or be. You agree to it because you don’t know how to say no or you are afraid of the consequences of saying no.
③ The people who you spend time with love to gossip and pull other people down but fundamentally you know that this is not what you enjoy doing. You would much prefer to be in the company of people who light you up and they get YOU but you have no idea how to break away from your gossipy friends.
④ The job you have does not light up your life. Every Sunday night you get that feeling of dread in the pit of your stomach as you know you have to go to work the next day and you frigging hate it with a passion. You would rather do anything than what you are currently doing but how can you leave a job that pays the bills?
⑤ You have bought a ton of books on self development and how to “find the real you” but you are still peddling the same shit day in day out and nothing is changing. The books say if I think more positive and use “Affirmations” then my life will miraculously turn around and I will be happy.
If any of the above resonate with you, and not all of them will but I am guessing some of them will or why else would you be reading this article? Right..then it is a HUGE sign that you are not living your life on purpose. Life has become a mundane tedious bore and you are stuck right in the middle of it.
Well I hear you sister !!
I have been there and I know exactly how it feels and I also know what you need to do to get out of this monotonous feeling and open up to the wonderful gifts of life.
The Universe wants you to be happy, it is your birthright to be happy
And here is the crux of the matter…YOU have to WANT to change – simple as that. If you are prepared to put the work in on yourself and create a Magical life then it can be a wonderful, enthralling and enlightening process. However if you just think that someone else can come along and change this all for you, or that just picking up the latest personal development book is going to solve all your problems then you are barking up the wrong tree.
IT ALL STARTS AND ENDS WITH YOU. BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE
Are you READY to make that change?
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Lots of Love and Abundance 💜💜 Jackie xx